I know exactly what you want
I gravitate towards and click with those who knows the value of precious time in some gratifying new company, totally away from all that we know, specifically, valuing their own pleasure, who look to liberate themselves through it, just as I do.
Possibilities can extend to a liason and passionate friendship, always deeply personalized, from spending slow hours enjoying addictive kisses and sharing asute views on life while we perhaps getting drunk on laughter in front of an inspiring view and a cold bottle from the Rhône. This is my forté and favourite way to feel comfortable with someone new.
Although we know spontaneity is the spice, i prefer to meet and go with the flow. But by all means, include any specific desires, or expectations you have tastefully in your first point of contact I like to read in advance on what makes you click.